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Modified: 06 November 2016

Online: Wednesday

About Him

Country of Origin:
United States
Location:
Duncan (Cowichan bay), British Columbia, Canada
Gender:
Male
Age:
60
Height:
181cm (5' 11.3")
Body Type:
A few extra pounds
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Light Brown
Eye Colour:
Hazel
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Jehovah's Witness
Serving As:
Currently not serving
Marital Status:
Divorced (Free to Remarry)
Looking for:
Friends; Open to possibilities; Marriage
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
Ask me later
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Technical Diploma
Occupation:
Labour / Construction
Income:
Struggling

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
North America; Central America
Location:
Anywhere in North America
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
35 - 57
Height:
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 181cm (5' 11.3")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous
Looks:
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Hazel
Has a Photo:
Decidedly important
Ethnicity:
Asian; Black/African; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed; Black/Caribbean
Home Language:
Any
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Jehovah's Witness
Serving As:
Any
Marital Status:
Never Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; Divorced (Free to Remarry)
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
Yes
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

Hi
Skooch and Kutter are my very good friends. I now have Skippy, also

I am artistic and creative, I play guitar, banjo & bass and sing(at the same time even!) I play because I like to!

Was babtised in 1990 in Grande Prairie Crystal Ridge cong. I became inactive after a divorce and from the effects of PTSD in 2003. Ive had to fight for the truth since before Harvey studied with me I recently found out I have PTSD... It's from the abuse I suffered when I choose the truth. The abuse continues!

I started noticing the effects right away but didn't understand It was PTSD. it wasn't till about 15 years ago that the PTSD started becoming a problem at the meetings. When I am triggered I have to be able to escape what is triggering me! What can i say about it? .... Where the pain is you wont find me... I have tried ignoring it and pretending its not there and distracting myself... It doesn't work. Then again the truth is the truth! It doesn't change that.

Music has been a treatment for me. I can definitely loose myself in it. Gardening too. My puppies help me as well. i was in a thing called "heal my PTSD" Its a forum that let me write to others who are suffering from PTSD. It has helped as we can compare notes on what helps and what doesn't . Being reminded about the things that gave me PTSD are what triggers me. So I've stayed away from those that keep reminding me.

The meetings have been a source of pain for almost 18 years now. I've tried going, and I not only feel I'm not welcome there...most try and be civil, but support, even moral support or help in any fashion is not offered. The reminders of what gave me the PTSD are a constant at the meetings, and I'm not considered sick enough to get them by phone, so I can stop and come back later. It sometimes seems it was a mistake defending the truth and thinking anyone gave a fig.

About His Ideal Match

You should be sure what is the truth is. Someone kind, honest, intelligent, not quick to judge,... artistic would be nice ... love music. Be willing to help and be helped. Don't be too quick to give up on people. Love dogs(I do, I have three , Skooch and Kutter. Skippy. they are my best friends)

Honesty and loyalty ... Very important!
I'd like to find my other 1/2
Is that you?

Deal breakers? I think anti-depressants are a plague! I avoid them at all costs! They are addictive and can make us not care. People who don't care are sometimes psychopaths... I avoid them.

It's very important for us to care about ourselves and others! I do know people who have weaned themselves off them anti depressants... Watch out for depression though...the antidepressants can make that worse for a time, if you're trying to stop using them. Real smart! Give someone who is depressed a pill who's side effect is depression!!!

More About Him

Religious Background & Activity
Baptized Jehovah's Witness for:
More than 20 years
Disfellowship:
I have never been disfellowshipped
Disfellowshipped Family Members:
No
Family Members:
None of my family members is currently a Jehovah's Witness
Religious Attendance:
I'm currently inactive/non-practicing
More Physical Characteristics
Facial Hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body Hair:
Hairy
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Fashion Sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Hair Style:
Medium; Straight; Well-behaved; It has its moods
Personality Traits
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Easy going; Intelligent; Naive; Optimistic; Outgoing; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Silly
Valued Qualities:
Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Blue
Favourite Clothing:
A leather biker's jacket
Date Activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Cuisine:
Chinese; Fast food; French; Seafood
Music Preferences:
Blues; Country & Western; Folk; Heavy Metal; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock
Books:
Fantasy; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help
TV Shows:
Action/Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy/Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sci-Fi
Movie Preferences:
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Romance; Sci-Fi; Westerns
Interests:
Auto repair; Computer programming; Gardening; Healthy living; Making Music; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Sewing; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking
Sports:
Archery; Baseball; Bowling; Camping; Canoeing; Cycling; Fishing; Flying / Gliding; Hang- / Paragliding; Hiking; Horse Riding; Hunting; Ice Skating; Martial arts; Motorsport; Pool; Rowing; Sailing; Scuba diving; Shooting; Skiing; Soccer; Softball; Surfing; Swimming; Walking; Water skiing; White water rafting
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at Work:
I work part-time
Pastimes of choice:
Pursuing a hobby
Time Online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Cooking:
I have to cook
Dining Out:
I eat out a few times a month
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
Movie Frequency:
I wait for movies to come out on video
Sport Involvement:
An active participant
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Family Size:
I've got brothers
Family Closeness:
I don't speak to my family
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Reading:
I enjoy it
Dietary Restrictions:
Diabetic
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Have):
Dog(s)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Fish; Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Rodent(s)
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Work fewer hours
Dream Home:
Cabin in the mountains
Retirement Plans:
Sailing the seven seas
Honesty:
Extremely
Feelings about using JWMatch:
Optimistic