Many profiles focus on sporting events ,hobbies, restaurants, vacations etc. which quite frankly everyone enjoys and is the easier part of any relationship and life.
Few relationships break apart because a partner refuses to have fun? Well maybe coach potatoes but that's not me ! A foundation of my life has been life is not about how much I can consume or how much I can gratify myself
Life is not about me but others !
Find someone that can hang in the kitchen making sauce from garden tomatoes and maybe some baked squash rather always running from one social event after.
For me a active social life takes a back seat to the soul for having a great relationship with any depth and passion!
Don't get me wrong attitude chemistry,taking care of one's self,appearance,ambition,etc are all needed but the soul of a person is by far the most important as it relates to family, grand kids ,life issues,the world as a whole and bringing each other to a higher place.As goes your soul so goes your life.
When problems arise in life can that person be counted on ?
Do they have the character and purpose in life as a foundation that allows them to handle a situation or is their foundation built on self ego, pride,or greed ?
Will alcohol, career or money fill the void between your foundation and life issues ?
I'm looking for a purposed minded,seasoned, optimistic,outgoing,woman who simply uses her God given talents. I want her to be herself and real!
I want a friend that I can hardly wait to see.at the end of the day!
About His Ideal Match
I'm in no hurry and would like to take it slow but ultimately my ideal match is a woman who is down to earth, kind, and considerate, with a great sense of humor and a positive attitude. I am looking for a partner who enjoys life for what it is, doesn't take it too seriously, likes to have fun, and willing to try new things. I always find a nice smile, beautiful eyes, and a pretty face attractive, but above all else is intelligence and a great personality. It is important that she respects herself as much as others, has self-confidence, and lives with honesty and integrity. I believe any relationship has to be based upon trust first, and once you have that as a foundation, anything is possible. I'd love to meet a woman who is confident, independent at times, appreciates her health, and keeps herself fit and in good shape. Sharing some interests would be great but I'm always willing to try new things as I hope you are. I would especially like to have a partner who is willing and enjoys digging in and helping out or working on projects around the house. A best friend, partner, and lover who is willing to explore new possibilities and share anything life has to offer us. Someone who can stand on her own two feet but is looking for someone to lean on (and who she can count on) when life may get a little rough. I'm hard to tip over and will always have your back. So if it sounds like we could be a match, I'd be happy to hear from you!