In Her Own Words
About Her
Hi! Nice to meet you : )
My friends would describe me as thoughtful, spiritually-minded, mild, kind, and soft-spoken (which still surprises me because I feel like I tend to be pretty enthusiastic and excited when I talk to the friends. Do people have trouble hearing me sometimes? Yes. Am I going to overlook that part? Also yes lol) Most are surprised when I mention that I describe myself as a bit shy and introverted (which I view as 2 different things) I'm really grateful that I have an enthusiastic and curious nature because it makes me pretty conversational which hides my nervousness and is really helpful in the ministry.
I come across as calm, but I wouldn't say I'm quiet.
Also, I am an INFJ personality type
LIKES
- I LOVE doing research and learning new things! I can spend hours getting lost looking things up in the Research Guide or just online
- Jehovah's wisdom
- The Octopus
- Calm, Peaceful Environments
- Tea
- Hiking
- Lakes
- Planning
- Getting Dressed up
- Children (I've worked with kids for over decade)
- Creating a safe space & gently guiding people to personal epiphanies/insights
- Details/examples during a conversation
- Lists haha (no, but seriously)
DISLIKES
- Large Crowds
- Pranks
- Yelling
HOBBIES/INTERESTS
- Researching
- Singing (especially harmonizing with other people! I feel myself getting pumped up just typing this because it's SO exciting! It's basically all I wanna do with my life lol)
- Painting and drawing
- Ice Skating
- Playing the Piano
- MBTI (Jungian)
- Love Languages
- Attachment Styles
- Mental Health
- Neurodiversity
OUTLOOK
I believe everyone is doing the best they can with the tools they have. Sometimes people's undesirable responses and actions are a result of missing tools in their toolbox (like a close relationship with Jehovah, emotional intelligence, coping skills, etc.). I really like giving people the benefit of the doubt by asking questions and I deeply appreciate when they do the same.
About Her Ideal Match
I'm looking for a brother with fellow feeling who has been tested spiritually and has a strong, close relationship with Jehovah.
Dealbreakers?
Since I'm more of a homebody, I don't think I'd be able to make a brother who enjoys going out every weekend happy (if he wants his wife to join him most of the time) without burning myself out. Also, I tend to be unattracted to those who lack self-awareness and clarity about what they need and want.
Do I have other dealbreakers? Sure, but I don't want to pressure you or add needless anxiety. Please just try your best to be yourself and I'll be honest with you about what works for me and what doesn't, okay? I know you might be nervous, but you got this!
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Brentwood, New York, United States | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
29 | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Spanish | |
Religion: |
Jehovah's Witness | |
Serving As: |
Publisher | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Connecticut; Delaware; Maryland; Massachusetts; New Hampshire; New Jersey; New York; Pennsylvania; Rhode Island; Vermont, United States | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
26 - 46 | ||
Height: |
5' 4" (162cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds; Large | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Below Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
English; Spanish | ||
Other Languages: |
Spanish | ||
Religion: |
Jehovah's Witness | ||
Serving As: |
Publisher; Auxiliary Pioneer; Regular Pioneer; Ministerial Servant; Elder; Bethelite | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Widowed; Divorced (Free to Remarry) | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Baptized Jehovah's Witness for: |
More than 10 years |
Monthly Service Hours: |
6-10 hours |
Home Bible Studies: |
None, but I would like to have one :-) |
Disfellowshipped Family Members: |
No |
Jehovah's Witnesses Family Members: |
Most of my family members are Jehovah's Witnesses |
Religious Attendance: |
I try to attend all weekly meetings/services without fail |
Hair Style: |
Long; Curly; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Shy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Honesty; Humility; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite Colour: |
Pink |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Folk; Pop / Top 40 |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Non-fiction; Religious; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature / Wildlife; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Documentary; Drama; Mystery |
Interests: |
Board games; Making Music; Painting; Pottery; Reading; Sewing; Singing; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Dancesport; Hiking; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Inline / Roller skating; Scuba diving; Snorkeling; Swimming; Table Tennis; Volleyball |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Italian; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s) |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Retirement Plans: |
At home with a good book |
Feelings about using JWMatch: |
Nervous; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
