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anti_coconut

42 – East Lansing, Michigan, United States

Camping was fun... i should do it again, but with my kids next time :)

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Modified: More than 6 months ago

Online: More than 6 months ago

About Him

Country of Origin:
United States
Location:
East Lansing, Michigan, United States
Gender:
Male
Age:
42
Height:
6' 0" (183cm)
Body Type:
Slim
Looks:
Average
Hair Colour:
Black
Eye Colour:
Brown
Ethnicity:
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Spanish
Religion:
Jehovah's Witness
Serving As:
Publisher
Marital Status:
Divorced (Free to Remarry)
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Marriage
Have Children:
Yes, living with me sometimes
Want Children:
Ask me later
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Some University / College
Occupation:
Administrative / Secretarial
Income:
Enough

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in the United States
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
25 - 37
Height:
5' 0" (152cm) - 6' 2" (189cm)
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous
Looks:
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Decidedly important
Ethnicity:
Any
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Jehovah's Witness
Serving As:
Publisher; Auxiliary Pioneer; Regular Pioneer; Missionary; Bethelite
Marital Status:
Never Married; Widowed; Divorced (Free to Remarry)
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
Any
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

I am a faithful brother, father, and friend. I am honest, did I mention faithful? lol, and I have a sense of humor.

I am a homeowner with a steady job, and 3 wonderful kids, and am not a 'player' by any means. If you're looking for a good guy... you've found one.

I'm pretty rooted where I am for the kids' sake... so I don't plan on moving out of state.

I've been in the truth my whole life, baptized at 13, served as a Ministerial Servant twice. Stopped serving the first time because of personal family issues years ago, and stopped serving second time because of the divorce situation.

I'm a funny, down to earth guy, though i have my head in the clouds still about some things, even if you don't fall in love with me, you'll be glad you got to know me.

Everyone always says, 'friends first', and I couldn't agree more. I'm looking for some good friends first. I'm not looking to seriously connect with someone right off as I think connection takes time and (if possible) real life interaction to develop into a committed relationship.

Oh, and no offense, but I probably won't respond to out of country inquiries like the Phillipines or Nigeria, etc. sorry.

About His Ideal Match

You must be a woman... lol, seriously though... born a woman... whew, got that one out of the way.

I would love a sister who is faithful to me and Jehovah. Someone who loves children as much as I do, and will treat my children as her own and show them the love and respect they deserve, as well as love and respect me.

You can't let yourself become one of those who will tolerate me because you love the kids... you wouldn't be dating the kids, you'd be dating me. When the kids grow up and leave the nest... you'll be left with me and you gotta look forward to that :)

You need to know who you are, and be happy with you. Confident and strong, and you must, I repeat, you must tell me how you feel and never fear telling me your thoughts, ideas and feelings about things... I have not yet perfected mind reading... and I'm pretty bad at it... but I can read people pretty good.

I would like a person with a great sense of humor, whether its dry or quirky, so long as you have one... I'm hooked.

I want a person who will be my friend and love me for who I am, you can fix me up, give me a new coat of paint or whatever, but you can't change me. I can adjust when necessary, but please don't try to make me into what you are looking for, it won't work. Oh, I'll try if you really ask... but I'll probably fail at it and where will that get us?

I'm not a good cook, so if you can cook... BONUS!

You must be able to find contentment if you haven't already found it. If you aren't content, how can you be happy? I'm not rich and I'll never be a sugar daddy... but I will do what I can. Everything I have is for my family, and I'd give my life for them too... you must be willing to be loved.

More About Him

Religious Background & Activity
Baptized Jehovah's Witness for:
More than 20 years
Monthly Service Hours:
1-5 hours
Home Bible Studies:
None, but I would like to have one :-)
Disfellowship:
I have never been disfellowshipped
Disfellowshipped Family Members:
No
JW Family Members:
Some of my family members are Jehovah's Witnesses
Religious Attendance:
I try to attend all weekly meetings/services without fail
More Physical Characteristics
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Fashion Sense:
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Short; Curly
Personality Traits
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The head
Party Behaviour:
A social butterfly
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Sarcastic; Silly
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Blue
Date Activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Cuisine:
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Italian; Seafood
Music Preferences:
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Latin; New Age; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock
Books:
Fiction; Mystery; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology
TV Shows:
Action/Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy/Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Reality shows; Sci-Fi
Movie Preferences:
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; Westerns
Interests:
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Making Music; Photography; Sewing; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Writing poetry
Sports:
Archery; Basketball; Bowling; Canoeing; Chess; Cycling; Darts; Golf; Hiking; Inline / Roller skating; Pool; Swimming; Table Tennis; Volleyball; Walking
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at Work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time with the family
Time Online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Cooking:
I cook rather than starve
Dining Out:
I eat out a few times a week
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
Movie Frequency:
Once or twice a month
Sport Involvement:
An active participant
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Family Size:
I've got brothers and sisters
Family Closeness:
We're average
Reading:
I enjoy it
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Have):
Cat(s); Dog(s)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s)
The Deep Stuff
Dream Home:
Castle in Scotland
Retirement Plans:
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World
Honesty:
Extremely