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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

About Him

Country of Origin:
United States
Location:
Fort Lauderdale (Wilton Manors), Florida, United States
Gender:
Male
Age:
44
Height:
5' 11" (180cm)
Body Type:
A few extra pounds
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Balding
Eye Colour:
Brown
Ethnicity:
Latino/Hispanic
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Spanish
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Serving As:
None / Not applicable
Marital Status:
Never Married
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Marriage
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
Maybe
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Ask me later
Occupation:
Administrative / Secretarial
Income:
Solvent

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in the World
Gender:
Male
Age Range:
Any
Height:
Any
Body Type:
Any
Looks:
Any
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Not important at all
Ethnicity:
Any
Home Language:
Any
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
Serving As:
Any
Marital Status:
Any
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
Any
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Any
Drinking:
Any
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

I know you're programmed to resist and dismiss as "apostasy" anything that is not copyrighted or dispensed by The Watchtower/Governing Body and self-appointed "faithful and discreet slave." I used to be like you. It's sad that it took my mom's dying to snap me out of it though. It's easier to take the "blue" pill and stay in the sheltered life of fantasy, fairytales and blissful ignorance than the harsh, cold, painful truth of reality. Unfortunately, life forced the "red" pill down my throat. The "organization" gives you only their one-sided view. But, you can read, study and take into consideration any and all information or data you choose and reach your own informed decisions and conclusions. As an example, simply Google how the common Bible texts used to promote hatred and intolerance towards gays have been hugely misinterpreted and have absolutely nothing to do with modern-day gay relationships but, rather, are coming from a place of ignorance and homophobia. Also, reflect on Jesus' message of love, empathy, tolerance, forgiveness, compassion, humility, peace, etc. He had 0-tolerance for lies, violence, intolerance, injustice, discrimination, hatred, abuse, ego, selfishness, partiality, favoritism, etc. As you know, YHWH gave us all free will and no human or its religious counterpart has a right to censure this God-given right. I was a JW up until age 27 when my mother died from terminal illness. The supposed "loving, caring brothers and sisters/worldwide brotherhood" proved to be like all other religions: judgmental, intolerant and hateful hypocrites. After 27 years of living the self-appointed "faithful and discreet slave's" manipulation, brain-washing, personal opinions and interpretations, lies, fantasies and failed predictions, it all came to a screeching halt in one day. My faith had been shattered. I was devastated. I had been abandoned. Therefore, in heartfelt, profound prayer to YHWH I came to terms with being gay.

About His Ideal Match

It wasn't about sex, as they would all have you believe, but companionship, friendship, connecting with a kindred spirit, conversation, tenderness, compassion, gentleness, the healing touch/embrace, etc., as I was extremely lonely. Also, I'm not a "typical" gay person as I have a different moral compass, upbringing, viewpoint, etc., so I can't relate to the stereotypical lifestyle. However, I also do not play God and judge others. No human stands in that right because, as you know, The Bible says that "we have all sinned and fall short in the eyes of God" and that "no one is good except God." Also, Jesus said that "he who is without sin [should] cast the first stone" and "judge not lest ye be judged." I expressed my deepest apologies to YHWH, but I felt deep in my heart that YHWH had made me this way. I always knew I was gay. I didn't ask to be and I wish I wasn't. So, since YHWH had "made everything in perfection," I felt at peace knowing that YHWH had a purpose and a plan for me. Also, contrary to the message of fear and dread they instill in you and all that talk of the "malediction that shall befall you" should you choose to abandon Jehovah/the Governing Body/the Watchtower, YHWH has never deserted me and continues to "rain blessings" upon me. I am still a person of faith. I do not live in fear anymore. Such as of Armageddon or not being good enough in Jehovah's eyes or living in constant dread of not knowing whether I am truly saved or not. I pray this message reaches the heart and touches the mind of loving, humble, gentle, sensitive, honest, compassionate, empathetic, caring and tender "brothers and sisters" that are feeling ostracized, tortured, judged, discriminated, criticized, rejected, lonely, betrayed and abandoned as I was. There is life, joy, peace and LOVE after JW!

More About Him

Religious Background & Activity
Baptized Jehovah's Witness for:
More than 30 years
Monthly Service Hours:
None / not applicable
Home Bible Studies:
None / not applicable
Disfellowship:
I have never been disfellowshipped
Disfellowshipped Family Members:
Yes
JW Family Members:
Some of my family members are Jehovah's Witnesses
Religious Attendance:
I'm currently inactive/non-practicing
More Physical Characteristics
Facial Hair:
I have a full beard
Body Hair:
Hairy
Eyesight:
I wear glasses and contacts
Fashion Sense:
Outdoorsy (I'm usually dressed for the bush)
Hair Style:
Disappearing
Personality Traits
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Moody; Optimistic; Outrageous; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Silly
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Blue
Favourite Clothing:
Shorts & a T-shirt
Date Activities:
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
TV Shows:
Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Sci-Fi
More Lifestyle
Family Size:
I've got a sister
Willing to Relocate:
For the right person, to the moon!
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish
The Deep Stuff
Honesty:
Extremely
Feelings about using JWMatch:
Optimistic