In His Own Words
About Him
I have a good heart, mind, job, and a proven track record as a father. Because I am divorced, there were obviously issues (a TWO way street), but that's the past and I'm ready to get back to "normal".
Total disclosure: Spiritually, my wounds have been slow to heal. I am not a ministerial servant or an elder, but I do love Jehovah & completely accept The Truth. I strive to do better every day. When I am active, I really do enjoy field service. It would be nice to do it with a mate.
As a man, I have to admit that I am more emotional than many. If you want a rough-n-tough cowboy, that is not me! I have a romantic disposition, but I'm out of practice. I am young at heart, honest & opinionated, friendly and easy going. I like to joke around & generally be jolly. I am not easily offended nor judgmental, I get along with all walks of life, races, & statuses. I am a great communicator with a great sense of humor. I enjoy board games, cards, gathering with friends & family, picnics, cooking, day trips, theater, movies, theme parks, and the water. I’m a homebody type who has a love of spontaneity!
I am not a typical man with a lot of vices (i.e. I'm not a drinker, not a Sunday footballer, I listen (and talk BTW). I am currently overweight but otherwise healthy. I go to the gym when the mood hits me but motivation is weak. I love my job and am good at it. I love dogs (and treat them as good as a child). I am grateful for my children (Ps. 127:3) and the earthly hope.
I am wired for a relationship and did not expect nor want my divorce. I have somewhat of an "old-school" ideal about marriage being JOINT at every step of the way. I want a partnership with a normal sister who is not expecting Jesus because the best I can offer is Peter.
Update April 2022-relocated back home to Florida.
About His Ideal Match
I prefer a sister who is easy-going, empathetic, understanding, & non-judgmental and one who will communicate with me honestly and regularly. I am drawn to sisters who respect Jehovah's arrangements but are not super-submissive; one who enjoys life, has a great sense of humor, and who supports me emotionally and spiritually while being able to stand on her own. I like sisters who are genuine and jolly.
I like a strong, outgoing woman who makes friends easily and wants a nice home life with the truth and family. I truly enjoy socializing, field service, & being with others, but I am not a natural planner on my own. IN THAT REGARDS, I tend to be more of a follower, and I hope to find a wife who will plan dinners, game nights, & similar activities for the family. Please do not be a wallflower, but don't be a party animal either! I need a sister who will be friends with my grown children without jealousy and who generally just enjoys life and is not expecting a perfect man.
Another note: I am not looking for 'fireworks'! I want a mate and a friend and a companion to just live a normal life with.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Tampa (Apollo Beach), Florida, United States | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
56 | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body Type: |
Large | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Jehovah's Witness | |
Serving As: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced (Free to Remarry) | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Medical / Dental | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the United States | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 52 | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 10" (179cm) | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Indian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Jehovah's Witness | ||
Serving As: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Baptized Jehovah's Witness for: |
More than 30 years |
Home Bible Studies: |
None |
Disfellowship: |
I was disfellowshipped, but I am now reinstated |
Disfellowshipped Family Members: |
No |
Jehovah's Witnesses Family Members: |
Some of my family members are Jehovah's Witnesses |
Religious Attendance: |
I sometimes attend meetings/services |
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Sense of Humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Sarcastic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Orange |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Broadway / Theatrical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Heavy Metal; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I'm not keen |
Books: |
Crime; Mystery; Romance |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Game shows; Reality shows; Talk shows; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Singing; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
American Football; Bowling; Cycling; Horse Riding; Pool; Swimming; Tennis; Volleyball; Walking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; Gastro Pub; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using JWMatch: |
Hopeful; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |