In His Own Words
About Him
I am poor at making someone feel special but that doesn't mean I don't have a loving heart.
About His Ideal Match
My ideal partner would be someone who is also my best and closest friend. Someone who I feel comfortable around and can be myself.
Other things that would be important to me is they'd have to like animals, allow me my space but enjoy affectionate moments too, preferably have some insight on mental illness, and probably be an introvert like myself (or at least be happy going to social events without me, I hate crowds >_<)
I admit I prefer a romantic-based relationship over a sexual one. So they'd probably have to be okay with that too.
How would they affect my depression/anxiety? Hm, well when things are bad, I'd like someone to just sit quietly with me and maybe talk about random stuff, not necessarily bad stuff, but good stuff too.
I'd hope they would be okay with me not going everywhere with them, and not try to talk me in to doing something that is making me uncomfortable. Allow me to say no, without getting aggressive about it.
Maybe give a little reassurance too, I'm very unconfident and paranoid that people secretly hate me, so little things to remind me I'm loved would be really sweet. Not gifts (unless they wanted to,) just taking care of me when I'm sick, or telling me when they appreciate something. That sort of thing.
But I don't think they could fix my mental illness, in fact no one can but me (with work and time). But I'd be happy if they accepted me the way I am, and helped me find creative ways to overcome obstacles when they happen. To be patient with me, caring, insightful and a good listener. To support me in getting better, but to be also accepting that I may never get better.
I'd hope we could work things out together and compromise when we can. That we can find a comfortable area where we can both cope and feel cared for.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
Philippines | |
Location: |
Bacolod (Mansilingan,Bacolod Philippines), Western Visayas, Philippines | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
26 | |
Height: |
157cm (5' 1.8") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Black | |
Ethnicity: |
Asian | |
Home Language: |
Ask me later | |
Other Languages: |
English; Filipino / Tagalog | |
Religion: |
Jehovah's Witness | |
Serving As: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Marriage; A Home Bible Study | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Current University / College Student | |
Occupation: |
Student | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Visayas, Philippines | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
20 - 23 | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 162cm (5' 3.8") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Jehovah's Witness | ||
Serving As: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Monthly Service Hours: |
1-5 hours |
Home Bible Studies: |
5 or more |
Disfellowship: |
I have never been disfellowshipped |
Disfellowshipped Family Members: |
No |
Jehovah's Witnesses Family Members: |
Most of my family members are Jehovah's Witnesses |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Hair Style: |
Short |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Sense of Humour: |
Childish |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Personality Traits: |
Moody |
Valued Qualities: |
Kindness |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Religious |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Educational |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Feelings about using JWMatch: |
Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
