In Her Own Words
About Her
It's only taken 40-something years to figure this out. But I think I got it now.
Listening to good music, dancing, cooking & eating amazing food, being outside in nature, exercising & movement, and laughing are the most important lifestyle aspects that I need to share in common with my man. My outlook is that "everything is figureoutable" - very positive & resilient and I want someone of the same mindset.
We all have a lot to offer in a relationship, just looking for the one who is my exact right match.
About Her Ideal Match
1st things first: If you do not have a profile pic, please don't reach out. This online dating is challenging enough as it is. As much as we can, we need to show who we are up front.
As for my ideal match...Of course, we don't need to agree on everything. In fact, I like a good, lively, friendly debate. But the areas we need to match are on healthy lifestyle, music & comedy, love of the outdoors. Besides that, I am very easy going.
One thing I realize we have to figure out right away, is what the heck are we doing trying to date during a pandemic? 😂 Seriously though, I am looking for a serious relationship which will lead to marriage. Full disclosure, I am disfellowshipped. I believe that if I come back as a single, I will get in trouble again. And I don't want to be in this situation ever again. I do not intend to rush into marriage. But that is the destination. Keeping it real.
What Her Friends Say
Optimistic hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
About Her
Country of Origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Laguna Niguel, California | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
48 | |
Height: |
5' 3" (160cm) | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Jehovah's Witness | |
Serving As: |
Currently not serving | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in California | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
35 - 55 | ||
Height: |
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 5" (196cm) | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African; Native American; Pacific Islander; Other; Mixed; Black/Caribbean | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Jehovah's Witness | ||
Serving As: |
Currently not serving | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed; Divorced (Free to Remarry) | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Baptized Jehovah's Witness for: |
More than 30 years |
Monthly Service Hours: |
None / not applicable |
Home Bible Studies: |
None |
Disfellowship: |
I am currently disfellowshipped |
Disfellowshipped Family Members: |
Yes |
Jehovah's Witnesses Family Members: |
Some of my family members are Jehovah's Witnesses |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm currently inactive/non-practicing |
Hair Style: |
Curly; Wild |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Silly; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Colour: |
Yellow |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; World |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Non-fiction; Self-help |
TV Shows: |
Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Educational; Music Channels; News |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Cooking; Healthy living; Making Music; Meditation; Reading; Singing; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Athletics; Body building; Camping; Hiking; Inline / Roller skating; Martial arts; Rock climbing; Running; Snorkeling; Stand Up Paddleboarding; Surfing; Swimming; Walking; Weight training; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I should have a bed in my office |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family Size: |
I've lost count |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using JWMatch: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |