In His Own Words
About Him
as a mature man with responsibilities, culture, and history—not a boy looking to play games.
Emotion is central: you feel deeply (classic Cancer energy), and you value honesty, loyalty, and spiritual or moral depth, so the right people should approach with calm, patience, and respect for your feelings.
I’m a 45-year-old guy, IT professional. Life has knocked me down a few times, but it also made me softer, more loyal, and serious about real love. I’m sensitive, spiritual, and I value deep conversations, honesty, and family more than status or show. I’m looking for a woman who is emotionally warm, kind, and truthful, who isn’t afraid of feelings or difficult days. If you want a partner to build stability, intimacy, and a peaceful home with, not just a fling, we might fit.
About His Ideal Match
My ideal woman is emotionally available, warm, and willing to talk about feelings instead of running away or going cold whenever things get serious.
She puts family stability high on her list, not just romance and fun, and understands that responsibilities deserve kindness and stability. She has her own inner strength and some emotional maturity: she can say “I’m hurt” or “I need space” instead of punishing you with silence or distance.
Shared values matter more than perfect chemistry: she should care about loyalty, honesty, maybe spirituality or faith, working together through problems, and not playing manipulation games.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
Ireland | |
Location: |
Dublin, Dublin, Ireland | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
45 | |
Height: |
170cm (5' 6.9") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home Language: |
Ask me later | |
Other Languages: |
English; French | |
Religion: |
Jehovah's Witness | |
Serving As: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Technical Diploma | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Germany; Iceland; Ireland; Italy; Poland; Switzerland; United Kingdom; United States; Virgin Islands (British); Virgin Islands (USA) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
35 - 50 | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 170cm (5' 6.9") | ||
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue | ||
Has a Photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Jehovah's Witness | ||
Serving As: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Baptized Jehovah's Witness for: |
More than 10 years |
Monthly Service Hours: |
11-20 hours |
Home Bible Studies: |
None, but I would like to have one :-) |
Disfellowship: |
I was disfellowshipped, but I am now reinstated |
Disfellowshipped Family Members: |
No |
Hair Style: |
Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Smooth |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Intelligent; Mild; Moody; Optimistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Devotion; Friendliness; Humility; Humour |
Fashion Sense: |
Smart (It's all about quality) |
Favourite Colour: |
Silver |
Date Activities: |
Attending a sporting event; Going to the theatre; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; World |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Non-fiction; Religious; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; News; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Mystery |
Interests: |
Business news; Card games; Healthy living; Meditation; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Athletics; Badminton; Basketball; Bowling; Curling; Darts; Extreme sports; Golf; Gymnastics; Handball; Ice Hockey; Ice Skating; Snooker; Soccer; Table Tennis; Tennis; Volleyball; Water Polo |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Italian; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Watching TV or a movie |
Time Online: |
I'm online on weekdays only |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Feelings about using JWMatch: |
Hopeful; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |