In His Own Words
About Him
I'm just this guy, ya know? I'm autistic so I'm a little bit weird. White and nerdy about sums me up. Yes, I'm referring to the song by Weird Al (why wasn't he on the music preferences?). I'm into blacksmithing and medieval fairs. Star Wars, Star Trek, all the classic nerd stuff.
I'm the quiet stay at home type. Great with animals, terrible with people. I wouldn't mind someone else like that. But I also wouldn't mind someone who helps me come out of my shell and get out more.
I prefer direct, blunt communication. No beating around the bush, hoping I'll get the hint. If you don't explicitly state what you mean, I'm likely to miss whatever it is you think you're implying.
My sense of humor is dry, and sometimes on the dark side. I like dad jokes and bad puns.
My current outlook on life is pretty bleak, but slowly getting better. I've been through a whole bunch of stuff all at once. Not as bad as Job, but close. It left me struggling with depression, anxiety and chronic health issues. I honestly don't expect to find anyone this side of Armageddon. But it doesn't hurt to look. Maybe Jehovah will surprise me.
I'm an odd duck. A black sheep in wolf's clothing. An outlier. I'm not for most people.
About His Ideal Match
Someone who can accept my autistic weirdness. The double empathy problem has been a continual thorn in my side when it comes to making friends. I need someone who can actually put in the time to get to know me. I honestly don't know what I'm looking for other than a few basics. Someone who loves Jehovah, respects headship, and brings me peace instead of drama.
Personality trumps looks, but I wouldn't mind a 5 foot tall redhead. What can I say? I like em short.
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Erie, Pennsylvania | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
48 | |
Height: |
6' 0" (183cm) | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Jehovah's Witness | |
Serving As: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced (Free to Remarry) | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Associates degree | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female; Male | ||
Age Range: |
25 - 48 | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 8" (173cm) | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average | ||
Looks: |
Average | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Jehovah's Witness | ||
Serving As: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Baptized Jehovah's Witness for: |
More than 20 years |
Disfellowship: |
I have never been disfellowshipped |
Disfellowshipped Family Members: |
No |
Jehovah's Witnesses Family Members: |
All of my family members are Jehovah's Witnesses |
Religious Attendance: |
I try to attend all weekly meetings / services |
Hair Style: |
Short; Out of control |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Disabilities: |
I have a chronic illness |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Devotion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Patience |
Fashion Sense: |
Outdoorsy (I'm usually dressed for the bush) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Electronic Dance Music; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Punk; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Fantasy; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Cartoons; Documentaries; Educational; News; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Sci-Fi |
Sports: |
Camping; Canoeing; Hiking |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Disorganised |
Time at Work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Horse(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Honesty: |
Extremely |