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Cdm

29 – Denver (Craig), Colorado, United States

Curious and Feeling lost in life-- INTP for the MBTI enthusiasts:)

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Online: Saturday

Modified: 01 June 2017

About Him

Country of Origin:
United States
Location:
Denver (Craig), Colorado, United States
Gender:
Male
Age:
29
Height:
5' 11" (180cm)
Body Type:
Average
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Black
Eye Colour:
Brown
Ethnicity:
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Jehovah's Witness
Serving As:
Publisher
Marital Status:
Never Married
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Marriage
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
Yes
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Bachelors degree
Occupation:
Medical / Dental
Income:
Comfortable

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in the World
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
18 - 30
Height:
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 6' 8" (204cm)
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured
Looks:
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Greying; Grey; White
Eye Colour:
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Hazel
Has a Photo:
Not important at all
Ethnicity:
Asian; Latino/Hispanic; Native American; Pacific Islander; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed
Home Language:
English; Other
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Jehovah's Witness
Serving As:
Publisher; Auxiliary Pioneer; Regular Pioneer; Missionary; Bethelite; Currently not serving; None / Not applicable
Marital Status:
Never Married; Divorced; Widowed; Divorced (Free to Remarry)
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
Yes
Daily Diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker
Education:
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

Often quiet but a good listener. Usually I think before I act, but sometimes to the point I can over analyze (INTP). For the most part, I'm pretty laid back and go with the flow. I'm generally considered a very patient, reasonable, and rationale person. I love to learn, expand, and share my knowledge. Like to go to the movie theater, working on home projects, fishing/camping, star gazing, video games, anime, sci-fi, traveling, trying new things, and pretty much any type of music.

It takes a while to get to know the real me. I am not very social but know how to be especially from working with my patients. I am not one to randomly start a social conversation. That is why I'm even on this site because it seems I can actually find a voice to speak to someone.

I have a long family history in the truth from my great-great grandparents down to me. I grew up traveling with my family for my dad's work and got to live in/travel through the majority of the lower fifty states, but we always kept home base in Colorado. A main staple of each move was to go to the local Kingdom Hall and go in service. We got exposed to many different cultures and people from which it gave us a broader view of the world.

I will be honest, I am imperfect and have made mistakes that I'm still trying to forgive myself for, but learned some life lessons that won't be forgotten. I'm trying to pick myself up and learn from them to make myself a better person. I always kept to myself to the point I isolated myself from everyone. I was naive and ended up finding company in the wrong place. Then when my grandpa died it made me take a hard look at my life. It felt like something was missing and that I had let life pass me by. I looked back and felt I had missed out on many experiences that normally most people would have like relationships and such. I felt like I was just alive and not actually living. I'm not sure anymore what I'm looking to find. Just sort of feeling lost in life and trying to find my way.

About His Ideal Match

I imagine someone that is intelligent, able to speak her mind, can stand up for herself, but is also easygoing and open minded, knows what she wants, won't play games, be honest about her feelings, and would like to be a partner in crime rather than just simply wanting to be taken care of. I am a baptized Witness and I would prefer that she would want that also. And someone else in the healthcare field would be cool but definitely not a deal breaker.

I have seen many rush to get married and others marrying out of desperation. I am of the opinion and have accepted the fact that, I may remain single permanently waiting to find the right one. I decided I would not actively pursue someone unless I have a good feeling that something maybe there between us. But I will not play games, if she doesn't know what she wants I am going to move on. I would love to find my best friend to spend the rest of my life and potentially eternity with. But I don't want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with me. I would rather be alone for eternity than be with someone that doesn't love me. I am not against getting to know someone on this site, but I will not pursue a formal relationship with someone until I get to know them better. Slow and steady wins the race:) and takes time to really know someone. And at this time, I would only be looking to talk with some as I am still feeling very lost right now but if something was there I would be willing to try to see where it goes.

Even though I have seen the best of people in the Organization, I have also seen and I am aware of the the more unspoken things having family throughout the country in different capacities in the Organization and being in multiple different congregations growing up. I would want those I meet on this site to be honest about thier views, but I will say, I would not want to be around those that are overly critical of the Organization.

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More About Him

Religious Background & Activity
Baptized Jehovah's Witness for:
6-10 years
Monthly Service Hours:
1-5 hours
Home Bible Studies:
None, but I would like to have one :-)
Disfellowship:
I have never been disfellowshipped
Disfellowshipped Family Members:
No
JW Family Members:
Most of my family members are Jehovah's Witnesses
Religious Attendance:
I try to attend all weekly meetings/services without fail
More Physical Characteristics
Facial Hair:
I have a full beard
Body Hair:
Average
Eyesight:
I wear glasses and contacts
Fashion Sense:
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Curly; It has its moods
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The head
Party Behaviour:
An impartial observer
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Black
Favourite Clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Date Activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Cuisine:
Doesn't matter
Music Preferences:
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock; World
Books:
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction; Religious; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Travel
TV Shows:
Action/Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy/Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; News; Sci-Fi
Movie Preferences:
Action; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns
Interests:
Acting; Auto repair; Board games; Card games; Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Photography; Reading; Surfing the Internet
Sports:
American Football; Baseball; Basketball; Birdwatching; Body building; Bowling; Boxing; Bungee jumping; Camping; Chess; Cycling; Fishing; Golf; Hiking; Horse Riding; Ice Hockey; Ice Skating; Mountain biking; Pool; Rock climbing; Running; Scuba diving; Shooting; Skiing; Sky diving; Snowboarding; Surf skiing/kayaking; Surfing; Swimming; Tennis; Volleyball; Walking; Water skiing; Weight training
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Time at Work:
I work part-time
Pastimes of choice:
Taking a class
Time Online:
I check in once a day
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Dining Out:
I eat out a few times a week
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
Movie Frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Sport Involvement:
Watching from the couch
Animals:
I like animals
Family Size:
I've lost count
Family Closeness:
We're average
Willing to Relocate:
I'm flexible
Reading:
I love it
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Have):
Cat(s); Dog(s)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s)
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Find new, more meaningful work
Dream Home:
Cabin in the mountains
Retirement Plans:
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home
Honesty:
Extremely
Feelings about using JWMatch:
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious